Chore Chart by Age: What Kids Can Do From 4 to 16
Updated July 2026.
Quick answer: a 4-year-old can put toys in a bin and clothes in a hamper; a 7-year-old can make a bed and set the table; a 10-year-old can vacuum and run the dishwasher; a 13-year-old can cook a simple meal and clean a bathroom; a 16-year-old can run a full laundry cycle and cook a family dinner. The chart below breaks it down, and the second half covers the part most articles skip: how to keep the chart alive after week one.
| Age | Independent chores | Chores with help | Suggested points per chore |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4–5 | Toys in bins, clothes in hamper, napkins on table | Feed a pet, wipe small spills, match socks | 5 |
| 6–8 | Make bed, set/clear table, pack school bag, water plants | Sort laundry, empty small bins, fold towels | 5–10 |
| 9–11 | Vacuum a room, load/unload dishwasher, take out trash, fold own laundry | Simple breakfast prep, rake leaves, walk the dog | 10–15 |
| 12–14 | Cook a simple meal, clean a bathroom, mow the lawn (after instruction), wash the car | Help plan groceries, watch a sibling briefly with an adult nearby | 15–25 |
| 15–16 | Full laundry cycle, cook a family dinner, deep-clean the kitchen, run errands | Basic home maintenance — bulbs, filters, assembling furniture | 20–30 |
Point values assume a scale where a routine chore is worth about 10 points — the default in ChoresFlow. Any consistent scale works; consistency matters more than the numbers.
Ages 4–5: build the habit, not the output
At this age the goal is identity ("I help my family"), not clean rooms. Keep chores physical, visible, and finishable in under five minutes:
- Put toys back in labeled bins
- Put dirty clothes in the hamper
- Carry their plate to the counter
- Put napkins or spoons on the table
- Feed a pet — with you watching
- Match socks from the clean-laundry pile
Expect to re-do the work. Don't re-do it in front of them.
Ages 6–8: first real responsibilities
Kids this age can own a short daily list and follow a two-step instruction:
- Make their bed (imperfectly — that's fine)
- Set and clear the table
- Pack their own school bag the night before
- Water plants
- Sort laundry into lights and darks
- Empty small trash bins
- Fold towels and washcloths
This is the best age to start a points system: the cause-and-effect between "I did my chores" and "I earned my reward" is finally concrete.
Ages 9–11: real work, real standards
Now the work should actually help the household — and it's okay to have a quality bar:
- Vacuum a room properly, corners included
- Load and unload the dishwasher
- Take trash and recycling out on collection day
- Fold and put away their own laundry
- Make a simple breakfast (cereal, toast, eggs with supervision)
- Rake leaves, pull weeds
- Walk the dog on a familiar route
Ages 12–14: kitchen, bathroom, lawn
Teens can handle the chores adults actually dislike:
- Cook one simple meal per week for the family
- Clean a bathroom top to bottom
- Mow the lawn after proper instruction
- Wash the car
- Help build the grocery list and put groceries away
- Watch a younger sibling for short stretches with an adult nearby
Money starts mattering more than points here. A hybrid works: points for routine duties, cash for bigger jobs.
Ages 15–16: run-the-house skills
The last two years before driving age are for adult-life rehearsal:
- Run a full laundry cycle start to finish
- Cook a family dinner weekly
- Deep-clean the kitchen, fridge included
- Run errands on foot or by bike
- Change light bulbs and furnace filters, assemble furniture
At this age the reward conversation shifts from toys to autonomy — later curfews, use of the car when licensed, budget ownership.
Why most chore charts die by week three
Paper charts fail for predictable reasons: nobody resets them, nobody tracks points honestly, the reward feels infinitely far away, and the parent becomes the chart's unpaid accountant. The fix is the same regardless of tools — automatic reset, honest scorekeeping, and rewards close enough to taste. A first reward should be reachable within one week of normal effort.
Setting this chart up in ChoresFlow, step by step
Here's exactly how this looks in ChoresFlow — the flow below matches the real app:
- Create the chores. In parent settings (behind your 6-digit parent PIN), open Chores and add each one: name it, pick an emoji from categories like Cleaning, Kitchen & Cooking, Laundry & Clothing, Garden & Yard, and School, and set its point value — the default is 10, so scale the table above around that.
- Set the schedule. Each chore repeats daily, on specific weekdays (trash night = Tuesday), monthly, or runs once. The daily list resets automatically at midnight — nobody has to wipe a whiteboard.
- Make deadline chores time-sensitive — sparingly. A time-sensitive chore has a start and end window; if it isn't done inside the window, it scores 0 points that day, no partial credit. Great for "backpack packed by 8 pm." Harsh for a 5-year-old — skip it under age 6.
- Assign chores to each child so a 7-year-old and a 12-year-old see completely different lists.
- Add cash to the big jobs. Any chore can carry a real-money reward on top of points. The cash accumulates toward the child's savings goal, and you approve the payout when the goal is reached.
- Stock the rewards store. Add rewards with point costs — 30 minutes of screen time for 50 points, a trip for ice cream for 150. Kids claim rewards themselves and watch the status flip from "waiting" to "delivered" when you hand it over.
- Let kids run their own side. Each child taps their name on the family screen and enters their own 4-digit PIN — no email, no account, works on one shared tablet. They check off chores, points land instantly, and they spend them in the store.
A concrete starter setup for a 7-year-old: four daily chores at 5–10 points each (make bed, pack bag, feed cat, clear plate), one weekly at 20 (fold towels, Saturday), and a 50-point reward reachable by Friday. For a 12-year-old: three daily at 10, two weekly at 25 (bathroom, one cooked meal), with a $5 cash reward on the bathroom feeding a savings goal.
The free plan covers one child with everything above; the Family plan ($4.99/mo or $39/yr) covers unlimited kids — see pricing.
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